Friendship? Nahhhh.....

Just so you know, men and women CANNOT be friends....EVER! here's why I say this:

Friendship requires that there be mutual interests. There is usually some sexual interest on one or both party's parts. To put it simply: "if you're not liking her, she's liking you". You can't be friends because your view of her will be permanently colored by the fact that you have feelings for her, so when she bring s over her guy-friend, you'll be smiling on the outside, but hurting and about to crumble on the inside. This isn't healthy at all.

She's NOT one of the homies, you're not one of her girls. She isn't a guy, and therefore isn't likely to like doing any things that guys typically do. It's highly unlikely that she will like to play the newest PS3 games, asking questions like "how do you beat this guy?"

Basically, if you want her, let her know, and if she's not with it, drop her. I don't mean you should shut her out completely, because she'll know she got to you. Speak but keep it movin'. Appear as though you don't have time to speak to her; it'll drive her nuts!!