Never Ever Ever.....

Never, ever try to be friends with a female you're sexually attracted to because female friends = mucho time with

By now, you've realized that the average a woman normally has several dudes to satisfy her every need, physical and mental right? Guys that take her out, buy her things, listens to all her mindless drivel about another guy she was either with or wants to be with, and in general treats her like a queen, and she still never really considers dating or sleeping with him. After which, she gives him a kick in the nuts, the kiss of death and says to them (or more specifically YOU) "You're such a nice guy" or "Why can't I meet a wonderful, sweet, caring man like you?" You're a guy like you, aren't you? So she should be tryin' to get with you, right? True, but she won't. Why?

She's not attracted to you. If she were, she would have jumped at the chance the instant she saw you, and wouldn't have risked losing you to another female. Women know if they want to be with or have sex with you from the instant they lay eyes on you, so if she hasn't tried something on you or given you some obvious sign by now, she's probably not ever going to.

She's using you. You are one of the many different guys she has in her stable of men. Each one of these men has the job of meeting one of her specific needs. Your job is to fulfill the emotional role that a boyfriend should. You, in effect, have been reduced to the status of "Boyfriend Lite". That's right! All the great listening capabilities that a boyfriend should have, but without you ever getting any! She's using you, and will continue to do so until you wake up and cut her loose.

Friends Without ANY Benefits

The instant you make your feelings clear to a woman, get any immediate response that's less than a yes, and you decide to try to win her over by continuing to spend time with her, she begins USING you. She may not intend to, (or maybe she does?) but that`s exactly what she`s doing. You have just been typecast in the role of "Boyfriend Lite". You get to listen to all her problems like a real boyfriend, except you don't get to hit it....ever. Every time you do this, you're giving her free reign to get with whomever she wants at your expense. How?

Because you fulfill the emotional role of a boyfriend. She will then go out and proceed to have sex with any other guy that turns her on in some way. But wait! It gets worse! After she`s done doing whatever with whomever, take a wild guess as to who she`s going to come share her stories with first? No, not her girlfriends... That's right! You!

Let that be a lesson to you. If you`re not her boyfriend when you should be or at least tapping that when you want to be -- There isn't even one legitimate reason to continue having anything to do with her. She already knows what you want anyway. All females know. If she needs a psychiatrist to talk to about her problems, or simply needs a "male's opinion" on how to deal with men who aren't you by the way, simply tell her it'll cost her 75 dollars an hour with a 250 dollar deposit and that should pretty much take care of that.

Many women will want to try to argue this point and say things like "Well, I have lots of guy friends." This statement is very stupid, to be sure. There are exactly 3 cases where a guy and a girl can be friends:

The guy is gay

The guy does not find you attractive.

The guy has a woman in mind that looks waaaay better than you. Why would he trade down for you?

What you should do is state your intentions upfront, no bullshit. If she's not with it, move on. Don't be stupid.

*Editor's Sidenote: No woman has a gaggle of male friends that cannot wait to hear her beautiful ramblings without getting to get some. Lemme be the first to tell you sweetheart, these guys want to bang you, do you understand?! If friendship was all they wanted, they'd go hang with their boys and play PS2 or something. They don't want female friends, so if you're not tryin' to let them hit, stop wasting their time. For the fellas, let me tell you this: "for a friend she sees, a friend you'll always be".

Every time she meets and gets with a random guy instead of you, she keeps saying to you that "You`re not good enough for me to date or have sex with, but this guy I met at the club/party/mall/work and knew for only about half an hour is. And if you call her on her bullshit she`ll probably give you a halfassed excuse that insults your intelligence. So then you`re back to jerking yourself to sleep night after night while fantasizing about her. And she`s out scratchin her nails into some other guy's back.

So ask yourself this:

"Would I do the things I do with/for her if she was a dude?"

If you said "No", then the two of you are not friends. You are just her man-bitch, plain and simple.

*NOTE -- friendships require that there be mutual interests and NO SEXUAL interest on either party's part. If there's even the slightest tinge of this, then you are NOT friends!

Remember this: "For a friend she sees, a friend you shall always be..."

Signs of DISINTEREST and General Indifference to you:

- Doesn't give you her number

- Impossible to set up a date

- Flaky and unreliable

- Is just plain rude and blows you off

- Makes no effort to continue a conversation and you start to notice lots of long pauses which she makes no effort to fill

She says she want to see you but claims that she is always busy. Women who are interested in you, if they have to break a date for some reason will always try to reschedule for a later day. to put it simply: "if she really wants you, nothing and nobody will stop her from trying to get to you".

Rarely will a female show negative signs to a guy she's really into.

And one More Thing:

You mean nothing to her until you have sex

Women will make all sorts of promises about what they will do with (and to) you when you two get together, but until you actually get in or on her bed and you have just finished, you don't even exist to her.

Inaugural Posting - Thanks For Coming By

It would seem that my original website's domain name was in dispute and seeing as I was threatened with lawsuits over the use of the word "womanese", I opted to cancel the site, freeing the domain name and instead went with a blog. I think this works better to serve my purpose anyway. Before I go on, any women that may at some point or another be in the audience, don't be offended. This is just me leveling the playing field. All day guys get dissed and dogged out by women and we're not allowed to defend ourselves without being called gay or whatever, so sit there and allow one guy unafraid to stand up for our side to tell you a little bit about yourselves. You are not without fault either.

Now that that's out of the way, on with the show.....