What I Have Learned Thus Far

What I've learned about women so far:

The female mind is a tangled up mish-mash of emotions and insane expectations. What I keep getting, over and over again from women, that the guy must, as a requirement, have varying degrees of a dangerous side. Any man that dares complain about this system is pretty much written off as a "woman-hater" (I should know, it happens to me all time). Anyway, after several unsuccessful relationships, they complain that there aren't any more good men. Nevermind that they haven't dated every man in the world, (some are closer to reaching this than others), Then they hit their 30's and they start to ease up on their unreal expectations, and as their looks start to fade, they start trying to date nice guys that, in their youth, the woman rejected on the basis that he didn't meet her neds at the time, not because she genuinely wants him, but because she's now in a rush to get married, and otherwise avoid becoming an old maid. But she can't see that she did this to herself, so instead, she blames her lack of a good man on anybody and anything (almost always on men) but herself.

My point is:

Women are VERY MUCH responsible for the choices they make in regards to choosing a man to be with, so when they get burned, and later in life, are desperate and in a hurry to find somebody to save them from a lifetime of lonliness, they have nobody to blame but themselves for it, so stop whining about whose fault it is (yours) and take responsibility for what you caused. Be honest with us men and with yourself about what you really want. You could solve most of your relationship problems if you would just take a look in the mirror and see that it's your insane desires that are holding you back and do something about it. You made it a point to choose nothing but hot boy thugs, pimps, and players, so how is it my fault you can't find a decent man now?

My Closing Statement:

Thugs, Bad Boys, and Players are often times just guys that got stepped on by women one too many times. They got tired of being a woman's puppet, started worrying about what they want, developed a backbone and stopped giving a shit about what women want, think or need. They're also tired of taking female advice only to have it fail miserably for them, so they decided to do whatever the hell they wanted to with little or no regard to what any female says. They basically became men, no longer "female-friendly".

Women will write off 15-20 nice guys to get to that one thug/bad boy/player. Ninety percent of the women always want 10% of the men. They may also become the "baby mamas" of these men several times over once the guy finds out he's gotten into her head, and then after being emotionally destroyed by this man she will have the absolute nerve to say good men no longer exist. She wonders why no good man will come along and try to help her clean up the car wreck she made of her own life. The reason you can't find a good man is because YOU DON'T WANT ONE AND YOU'RE NOT LOOKING FOR ONE! You probably don't even know what a good man is. Your secret is out now anyway, so you might as well admit it for the world to hear.

Bad Advice

Do not ever take dating advice from a woman, and I mean NEVER

First things first. As a rule, women give the absolute WORST relationship advice! You'd think that going to the source itself would be the answer, right? Wrong. Women are usually the last ones to know what they want in a man. They almost always contradict any advice they give you. Said advice usually starts off as something to the effect of "be yourself" or "tell her how you feel" or one of my personal favorites "don't be a guy that's pressed to hit it". This kind of advice will get you more girl-friends, but not anywhere close to the draws, so if you're not with the more girl-friends thing, this advice is ultimately futile. Women who say these ridiculous things always date the guys that are polar opposite of the advice they gave you and would never actually tell you that the key to being popular with women is to treat them like garbage. If they ever did, they'd be admitting that they view nice guys as boring, uninteresting, and can't sex them like they like it. In short, playing Mr. Nice Guy will get you nowhere. They say all these things while at the same time, they will continue to date the very guys they tell you be unlike. Then they can complain about it endlessly and still claim to be a victim. Can anyone say "liar" or "hypocrite"? Be particularly aware of ANY advice you get from any ex-girlfriend, as their kind of "help" isn't designed to help you, rather, it's designed to thwart any efforts you make to replace them. So what does one do? Be you, man! Make NO APOLOGIES for being the man you're meant to be. Be that man of action! Be so unapologetically male, and the women will take notice and you know what comes next.......

*NOTE: The general rule of thumb is that you as a man need to pay more attention to what she does and less to what she says, because the body doesn't lie, but mouths do. Then and only then will you know for sure what women really want. Got me?

Friendship? Nahhhh.....

Just so you know, men and women CANNOT be friends....EVER! here's why I say this:

Friendship requires that there be mutual interests. There is usually some sexual interest on one or both party's parts. To put it simply: "if you're not liking her, she's liking you". You can't be friends because your view of her will be permanently colored by the fact that you have feelings for her, so when she bring s over her guy-friend, you'll be smiling on the outside, but hurting and about to crumble on the inside. This isn't healthy at all.

She's NOT one of the homies, you're not one of her girls. She isn't a guy, and therefore isn't likely to like doing any things that guys typically do. It's highly unlikely that she will like to play the newest PS3 games, asking questions like "how do you beat this guy?"

Basically, if you want her, let her know, and if she's not with it, drop her. I don't mean you should shut her out completely, because she'll know she got to you. Speak but keep it movin'. Appear as though you don't have time to speak to her; it'll drive her nuts!!